Try something new – volunteering

This week I went to Thornton Rose RDA (Riding for the Disabled Association) in Rosewell. It was my first-time volunteering, and I had already learned many things. And most importantly, I met many lovely, welcoming people.As a horsey person, I love spending my time around these beautiful animals. Picture description (PD): a field in the sunshine I took in Rosewell this Wednesday. In the back of the field there are a line of trees. 

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Horses are very sensitive and intuitive. They reflect your emotional state to you. This was a comfort zone growing experience for me because I had to go to a place I’d never been before. However, I took a trial trip just to the stables to know which bus I needed to take, but instead of that, I didn’t know what to expect. Also, I didn’t have much experience working with horses. I spent some time around them in my childhood in camps where we had to groom them and mock the stables but these days, not much. PD: On the scanned picture there is a horse and a girl on the saddle and next to them there are another 6 girls, including me who wears sunglasses.

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What does RDA provide?
“Thornton Rose provides riding opportunities for people of all ages and disabilities to enjoy a safe, stimulating, therapeutic and recreational sport. The group was formed in 1984 under a previous name and established as Thornton Rose in 2004 when we relocated to Thornton Farm, Rosewell.
The group is a member of the Riding for the Disabled Association, where our vision is to improve the lives of people with disabilities through activities connected with horse riding.”

So, I spend there a few hours and helped where I could. The coaches and volunteers gave me instructions and small tours around the place and duties. However, it was bloody windy I enjoyed spending the day outdoors. I enjoyed every minute and will go again soon.

PD: on the second picture there is 10 reasons in small bubbles why you should volunteer this summer. In the circles the texts are: flexibility your time, your place; develop your skills; meet new people; try something new; enhance your CV; personal achievement; give back to society; gain a whole new perspective; make change happen; it’s fun.

Why is it worth volunteering?

  1. It is flexible. You work as much as you can or want. They will appreciate every minute you spend there, just be correct and honest.
  2. Meeting new people and making new connections increase our mental health.
  3. As a volunteer, you develop your skills. Learning new things is exciting and gives you good feedback that you are much more capable of than you think.
  4. In addition, you can put volunteering in your CV as a resourceful experience. And companies appreciate those who are willing to volunteer.
  5. You can try new things, something you’ve never done before. This is an adventure!

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  1. As a volunteer, you achieve things, and your work is appreciated. Remember, it’s not free. You give your precious time, which is your most crucial resource.
  2. Giving back to our community helps us to join in and be a real part of them.
  3. Helping others and experiencing their challenges will increase your empathy and understanding and give you a new perspective.
  4. We all (okay, most of us) want to make the world a better place to live in. Volunteering is a perfect place to start. You can find hundreds of charities that already have visions, programs, and strategies. You can choose any of them. Let’s make change happen.
  5. You can choose a role you are interested in administration, fundraising, event organising, helping around horses, and participating in sports events—so many options.
  6. You can find volunteering opportunities in Scotland, some of which are paid on the links below.

https://www.volunteerscotland.net

https://goodmoves.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjwlPWgBhDHARIsAH2xdNez7f_DirtStmxgfuJH5S5TEpEEs4c4_wuBUa-_j6PI_2e2BmNaFMsaAucwEALw_wcB

  1. It’s fun! Spending time with something you enjoy, helping others, learning new things helps you develop a better mental state, grow your empathy and connect with your emotions.

Theme of March: Happiness

In March we are talking a lot about happiness and why is this so important lately? Who can we describe what is happyness? Who can we measure it?
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Fifty or even a hundred years ago, happiness as a phenomenon was not the central question of life. Much more focus was on everyday living, raising children, religion, community involvement, and work. Roughly from the 1950s, the values and experiences of the individual became popular much more. Our lifespan is much longer than it was before and If we think about just relationships and marriage, we spend more time together and expect much more from these connections than before. We develop as a couple, and we grow in our personality, spiritually etc. In our individualist society, happiness is essential. Countless social media platforms and advertisements suggest the importance of feeling happy and shame on you if you’re not.
 
Hundreds of self-help books promise you 5-10 tips and ways of happiness. Like it would be a pill you can take or a button you push and that’s all: you are happy forever. But emotions do not like that. The first thing it is interesting to consider is what is the area we feel unhappy. Give this feeling other words: burnout, unmotivated, uninterested, low mood, disappointed, stressed etc. Let’s think about how long we’ve been feeling this way and when was the last time we were truly immaturely happy. What has changed in our lives since then, both negatively and positively?
 
My clients usually contact me with a topic centred around their happiness. For example, they no longer feel in flow in that position, in that company, as before. Sometimes they love their partner but feel disconnected and lack the energy and time to spend quality moments together.
 
Just a few questions to consider:
What feelings do you have?
How happy are you in general?
How often do you feel this way?
How happy are you on a scale from 1 to 10?
When was the last time you felt happy?
What are the things keep you away from feeling happy?
 
Tell me more details about your feelings now. Make a note for yourself.
 
If you wish to join us click on the link below or message me directly via email. 

Challenge a negative thought

I am the main character, the nameless hero of today’s story. I didn’t feel very well in the morning: I was tired, and my body was in pain. It would have been nice to curl back in the bad and stay there all day. But at the same time, I knew I had a lot to do. In the car back home, I had the craziest thought that I wanted to exercise. I imagined it would feel so good if I just did some basic movements, it might help to ease the cramps too. Then I heard the familiar voice in my head: “There’s no time for this today. You’re not even well. Why would you force this now?” At first, I nodded to myself. But when I got home, I took out my yoga mat, changed my clothes and turned on the music. I felt more and more energised and happy. I warmed up slowly to take care of my spine and joints. I didn’t want to do a workout today to cause pain, punish, or burn that fat but to heal, give strength, nourish and motivate. Nobody but myself.
 
Challenge a negative thought
When I say challenge a negative thought, I’m asking you that the next time when you reply immediately with something like „No, I can’t” or „It’s impossible”. Then stop for a moment and look at this thought. Because many times these drivers turn on because it is easier not to change anything because “oh, it wouldn’t work for me anyway”. Are you sure? Have you tried? No, because it’s much easier to say the usual. You already know that, even if it’s not good for you anymore. The root of these can often be found in childhood. But the fact that someone told you at the age of ten that it wouldn’t work for you anyway, and then you believed it, doesn’t mean that you can’t question it at the age of 30-40. Just because you failed ages ago doesn’t mean you can’t do it now. Dare to challenge negative thoughts and see that something is no longer as it used to be. These internalisations are formed to protect us as children. But even as adults, they accompany us and often keep us in good old comfort zone when we step on an unfamiliar road.
 
Back to my workout story. My inner voice advised me to be lazy today, while I felt it in my body, and I knew from years of experience that it is better for me (both mentally and physically) to do the workout. And you know what? It was amazing because I won against my negative self.
 
What will be the thought that you challenge today?

The gift of love is attention!

Valentine’s Day Sale 1-14th of February -30% on couple’s coaching*!

Are you tired of dull Valentine’s Day gifts?

Would you like to give something meaningful to your loved one? Would you like to live the moments together without hustling?

Would you like to spend more active time together?

Would you like to express your feelings and thoughts more effectively?

Would you like to take the next step in your relationship?

If you answered ’Yes’ to any of these questions, let’s get in touch, and I’m more than happy to help both of you.

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Contact me for more details and bookings:

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Without actions, dreams stay in the drawer

There is a little twist in this sentence. Namely, it is not true just by itself, you may have dreams, but if you don’t do the work for them every day, you’ll just stay where you are now.
“A goal without a plan is just a wish”, said Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. That’s why you do a little bit every day for your goal.
Furthermore, If you still feel likYou're closer to your goals today than you were yesterdaye you’re just going in circles and not getting anywhere, maybe it’s worth sharing your ideas with someone else and looking at your plan from a different perspective.
Look at these questions:
🧰Would you like to advance in your career or try a new path?
💪Do you feel you have lost motivation in your work or another area of your life?
⏳Do you feel like the days just flow together, and you can’t find happiness?
🏖Do you want to make your dreams come true instead of having them in the drawer?
If you answered yes to any of the questions, please get in touch, and I would be happy to help you to unlock your potential.
Eva Moricz
Email: eva.moricz@5petals.coach
Phone: +44 7469075866

Happiness starts with you

Thinking about happiness seems easy but what will happen if we dig a little bit deeper? I brought you an activity to find out! Have a happy Monday!

What is happiness mean to you?

When are you completely happy?

What do you feel when you are happy?

What kind of emotions can you recognise?

How do you look like when you are happy?

What is your happy place?

How is your life look like when you are happy?

When were you happy last time? I mean very happy like you are in love and the whole world seems different.

On a scale of 1-10, where are you now?

What is this level mean to you? How is it feel?

How did you come to this point?

What is the level you’d love to be there?

What will you do to get there?

When will you start?

What is the first step?